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Mara al saliha01 a écrit:
I’m in love with a man for 2 years, he is older than me, 23 years.
He has 51 years and I have 28 years.
I accepted him because he was religious man, respectful and ready for marriage.
So I said to myself if he wants you in halal why refusing him.
This was living in abroad and I in my country somewhere in East Africa.
I have waited him 2 years because his mother was suffering and was the only one who was supporting her financially.
When his mother passed away he came back to homeland.
But the issue is since I have met this man till today we got problems.
Because he is someone who is not affective and never shows me what he feels towards me.
I was always the one who is running after him, calling him and texting me.
My parents were against our union but I convinced them to accept him.
I did many times salaat istikhara asking Allah helps.
Now it’s 4 days I do not call or text that man and he never thinks to do it.
I told him many times to let me know if he is not ready to get married with me.
He never gives me clear answer and I told his sisters, they told me to wait him.
Because he is facing some issues with the customs regarding his shipment.
I am not trying to narrate you my personal life but I am here to ask you advices through your experiences in life.
May Allah bless you!!
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baliygh75 a écrit:
Salam
Difficult to answer this madness. however. He wants to marry abroad and be housed
and nurtured by you. 52 years and still hope to immigrate? No comment.
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sinjini a écrit:
Slm nan t'as pas compris c elle qui vit en Afrique de l'ouest et qui souhaite émigrer je suppose
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Mara al saliha01 a écrit:
really i don't know because he started to talk with me badly ,it's like you do not have the desire to communicate with someone.
if he has problems with customs,it doesnt mean that he cannot find time even 1 minute for asking about me if i do it as i used,calling him every day.
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Mara al saliha01 a écrit:
really i don't know because he started to talk with me badly ,it's like you do not have the desire to communicate with someone.
if he has problems with customs,it doesnt mean that he cannot find time even 1 minute for asking about me if i do it as i used,calling him every day.
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sinjini a écrit:
Slm nan t'as pas compris c elle qui vit en Afrique de l'ouest et qui souhaite émigrer je suppose
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D'la vieille école a écrit:
Elle a sûrement rien du comprendre à vos réponses
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Cryxus a écrit:
It"s amazing!
But it's very difficult for me to answer.
This man is not very young (53 old years the material is not optimized....) and you are 28 old years that it to say in the prime of the life.
Ok this man is fantastic but the future what is the future ?
I don't know.
Take care.
Today it's beautiful day with the birds.
Best regards.
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Jennett a écrit:
:ptdr
And three little birds are singing ..