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Converting and marriage
27 August 2017 05:39
Hi everyone,

Since a year I have been reading more about Islam out of interest and the more I learn about it the more I am interested in it and find it beautiful, I'm soon going to a mosque in my hometown because I want to learn more about it but did not consider converting yet since I wanted to learn more first on my own because I was scared that I wouldn't be welcome.

More recently I met a Moroccan woman, and we talked about Islam etc and I asked if I could talk more to her about Islam and we added eachother on whatsapp.. since that time we have talked a lot, like really a lot about anything and everything and we stay up until late at night talking (except for when she goes praying). She's pretty strictly religious and I guess I am blessed to even be able to talk to her , now we are at a point where I feel as if she is the first woman I have actually felt that she respects me and I her and that I can actually have good conversation with.. Often we talk as if we are discussing how to solve cultural differences.. I said I would wait until I feel I can convert because I want to for myself and she said it was the only way she would want it too.

Now I never imagined meeting someone accidently somewhere and even stranger a muslim girl.. Also a weird thing we found out is that her birthday is 3 days earlier then mine, I am 3cm taller then her, we both have 3 siblings etc.. she told me the number 3 has some sort of signifigance and after thinking about it it might be true even tough we both don't know what it means to us.

I am trying my best to not fall in love completely but it is starting to become too hard, she's the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about when I go to sleep, I would not mind being in love but I wanna become a proper muslim and learn enough first because I know it's forbidden for muslim woman to marry a non muslim man.. How should I deal with these feelings? And is it bad if I am in love? I will ofcourse not touch or hold her until we would marry and I am converted.

Sorry for the long post and I am not natively english so also excuse my grammar.
27 August 2017 09:56
Sorry but you have to give up!

If this girl doesn't imagine her life with a non-muslim guy, you have no future togother...
27 August 2017 10:48
Fall in love Islam first in order to become a sweet good Muslim.... then think to this way else.
If she is a good one, she would advise u a man but not exchange whit her....eye rolling smiley
27 August 2017 11:35
Love is beautiful thing, and everything happens for a reason. If you believe in Allah than go to the Mosque, become a Muslim and than go meet her family and propose to her.

Sometimes, it's better not to think too much and Just follow your heart.
27 August 2017 12:59
Assalâmu 'alaykum wa rahmatullâh. (Peace upon you and God blessing)

Allah told :
"And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.." (Surat 17 - Verse 32)

Chatting with a person of the other gender about nothing, frequently and during a long time, what is it ? Approaching the unlawful
The unlawful only make problems.

If you want to learn about Islam, ask the mosque.
If you like her, meet her within honor. After coming into Islam.

Respecting rules of the Wise makes life easier.

Wassalâmu 'alaykum wa rahmatullâh.

Love makes blind. Marriage makes recovering sight.
27 August 2017 13:42


My friend, I advise you to go to a mosque and learn a lot about Islam ...Because that's the most important thing for you right now ......For your story with the girl ... not know what's in the future
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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/27/2017 01:46 by schtroumpf%bricoleur.
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