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faisal28
nina2009, have you thought about marriage counselling , having arguments with your husband or if life became absurd , or if your husband is preoccupied by an other one doesn t mean they are bad people out there with nothing to do a part from directing some african voo doo towards your couple !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
an other point: have you done any statistics by saying millions of moroccan women practicing s7our, thats not credible don t you think ?
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chaïba kadim
Dear Nina;
The Shour in Morocco is like any other problem that you can find in any other country. When people struggle in life and can't have a realistic excuse they just start looking for paranormal explanation. Some chose prayer, other chose drugs and in Morocco they chose Shour.
Also, you should not omit that 70% of Moroccan are illiterate and the 30% remaining have illiterate parents. More than that and this what really chocks me, not only illiteracy people who look for that shit but all strata of society.
I think there is a conspiracy behind that. When you see how the government encourage some satanic celebration like "Cheikh Kamel" de Meknes et les autres a3adat it's unbelievable. So government is more powerful with a stupid citizen.
So again, shour had nothing to do with the country.
To return to the principal subject in that post. I finally think that like for shour the marriage had nothing to do with a country, or ethnicity. Once you will fall in love or find the right one you will not consider it's origin. And like for shour, if you can't find one, you will look for paranormal explanation, like religion and culture and so on.
An this is from my own experience, when I'm lonely to relieve my self I say, oh I'm alone because I can't find a muslim or moroccan girl. But once I'm a company of nice girl I forget where I come from I can also forget that my name is Chaiba
so singling out moroccan and gluing this to them is not fair and not accurate 
With other nationalities perhaps you can learn other culture and learn that there is more than our loved Morocco and Moroccans, others and as valid exist. Yes? what is in your country normal ? and what is almost normal ? 
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bebbocu
hy rossette .
i really like your post
listen , i wanna ask u something : can a morocco girl fall in love with a guy who is not the same religion as her?
also this is really strange , i was dating a morocco girls for a while , and she was keep telling me to meet her friends and etc.
so one day i met her friends , they were nice to me , bla bla bla
but after that , they started telling to this girl that she is a bitch that she has a boyfriend who is not musulman... and also one of the guy punched her in the face .., WTF?? why do they think like that .. .
i am not musulman , but i do not jugde anyone , just , i do not understand this way of thinking about the women
but... the morocco guys here they go out with romanians girls all the time , they like romanian girls because they are really open minded to everythin if u understand what i am talking about...
Women in morocco are not treated well , really , a women is equal with the men
The women must be treated with love , gentle , and also provide her all the support she needs...
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bebbocu
ye ... interesting religion
anyways , i have notice that there are more women than men that convert to musulmans from other religions...
my opinion is that u can't be at the middle of faith ,if u want to folow the musulman reliogion , than do it , but don't be like the musulmans here in this country (romania ) : they party a lot, they drink a lot - which for me is normal- i believe in god but i do not live my life and make the big decision based and around the religion
if u believe i god u do not have to show it only for people not to judge you...
tell me please , i am thinking about going next year in morocco for a job .
how is morocco , in casablanca and in marakess? how the people are like ?i am really curios , i read somewhere that in morocco there is the poor class and the rich class , i mean i read that there isn t any middle class in morocco
i am really curios about going there and also about how people are like
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Hash
Hi chaïba kadim,
It's quite funny... because i think that i'm living the same situation except that i'm a girl and that i don't live in America but in the other side of the world at Paris(that's why my english is not so good, sorry
I think that it's the same situation because they are the same opposition between western girls and boys and the others from our country.
I was born here in Paris, i always live here and i think that i take a big part of french culture so sometimes in my relationship i feel better with western guys than with moroccan, even if they are born here too.
I noticed that it exists 2 kinds of franco-morrocan guys: a kind who are from poor neighbourhood and who didn't really study, who are drug addict etc and an other kind who are intellect and very pious.
And I'm not.
I had a boyfriend who's french and i really feel well with him but unfortunatelly we broke up and now i'm looking for a serious relationship. But I can't find what i'm looking for! I prefer the wstern mentality, i feel better with western guys but they are not muslims so i have remorse! How can I spend my life with somebody who don't share my religion? It's just impossible, for my futur and for my parents too.
In the contrary, moroccan guys, seems not for me. The first kind that i talked about is really not for me. I'm too ambitious for sacrifice my life with somebody who don't respect me, who is uncultivated who don't have a good work and you have problems with drug or alcohol etc...
The second kind seems not for me too. They are too much in the religion. I really belive in God, i try to be a good muslima but they have a conception of our religion which is very strange for me. I can't loose my freedom. Of course when you get married it's different of your single life you have to make some concessions. But there are limits for all!
A few days ago i talked with a friend and we laughed because he said that the one for me is an Tony Hawk with a djellaba!
I found it really funny and true...
I want someone you have a western mentality, like me but who have too religion values. So I think that i will look for my charming prince a loooong time!
About the "real" moroccan guys, who are from Morocco, who were born in Morocco and grown in Morocco I just can't support them!!! It's a TOO STRANGE mentality, i really hate it!!!
I don't know if I was really clear and if you understand all what i mean but i hope that you will answered to me!
Ciao.
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Hash
Hie Bebbocu,
First thanx for your answer.
Of course we all have to folow our heart but sometimes reason troubled this balance.
It's better if your reason and your passion are agreed. That's why it makes a problem for me. But maybe i'm too demanding?
For your question. It's really depend but muslims girls are not allowed to sleep (you mean sleep by relation isn't it?) with guys before getting married so, often, girls don't need to sleep even if, like you said they take this relationship very seriously.
In the religion, muslims girls must be virgin still they get married.
But, if you mean relationship by relation, it's really depend of the girl, of her education, etc... Many muslims girls don't care about the religion in this point and have boyfriend, seriously or not. In contrary, some of them have only serious love story or any boyfriend before getting married.
Take care.
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chaïba kadim
Hi bebbocu;
Good to know you're in love buddy
One thing you need to know, musulman girl are NOT beautiful or beauty has nothing to do with religion
you just had chance to meet a nice looking girl who happen to be musulman, what will you say if it was a hindou? that all hindou girls are beautiful??? or any other religion.
I can agree with you if you say, Moroccan girl are beautiful, yes most of them, but again beauty doesn't have religion, race or place. It depend how you look to it.
Maybe it's just because she is not like what you are used to see
For the marriage and religion, take your time and fellow your heart. Don't let the religion take over your sentiment. You never know what could happen after that. I know lot of married couples from different religions and they have children and everything is all right.
And if you have to convert or she have to convert let's do it from your heart not just to be with her or to be with you.
So make love not war and good luck.
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Hash
Hi!
We're not so complicate! If she is affraid, she maybe had bad experiences with guys... And if you are using to go out with many girls I think that it can be hard for her to trust in you with those conditions.
Try to give her more intention, take your time, try to show her that she's important to you etc. It's the best way to make her trusting in you. We, girls, want to shine, to be the ONLY ONE for our boyfriend, to be important for him etc.
It's not so hard
Tell us about!
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Hash
Hi!
We're not so complicate! If she is affraid, she maybe had bad experiences with guys... And if you are using to go out with many girls I think that it can be hard for her to trust in you with those conditions.
Try to give her more intention, take your time, try to show her that she's important to you etc. It's the best way to make her trusting in you. We, girls, want to shine, to be the ONLY ONE for our boyfriend, to be important for him etc.
It's not so hard
Tell us about!
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